Sound Choices Press Release re: Decriminalizing Polygamy 1/15/14

 As state policy makers and the general public listen to the debates about polygamy and gay rights, the Sound Choices Coalition affirms that in spite of pro polygamy propaganda that would have people believe otherwise, these are two completely separate issues.

If it were only a matter of sexual privacy we would let matters rest, but polygamy is so much more, especially for the children involved.

The bottom line is that numerous studies in the US and abroad clearly show that polygamy is harmful to individuals and societies.

We support the United Nations’ view that polygamy undermines women’s rights to “equality with men.”

As human rights activists, we also agree with the UN that polygamy has such serious financial and emotional effects for women and children that “such marriages ought to be discouraged and prohibited.”

From our experience, we concur with Professor of Economics Shoshana Grossbard who echoes the UN in her findings that polygamy is “anathema to women’s economic, social and emotional well-being.”

Dr. Dena Hassouneh and Dr. Alia Hogben’s separate research in the US and Canada also identifies polygamy as a major cause of emotional distress and depression for the women involved.

Sound Choices Coalition supports Professors Henrich, Boyd, and Richerson’s findings that polygamy encourages crime and places children at greater risk of sexual and physical abuse (and even death) than children in monogamist families.

Henrich and his associates further note the huge age gaps often seen in polygamous unions. They identify how polygamist males spend time competing for females and attempting to maintain multiple relationships, resulting in little time for parenting their children.

Claiming “religious persecution” or “racism” as the reasons for anti polygamy laws is just a smokescreen to mask what Chief Justice Baumann of British Columbia calls the “inherent abuses” of polygamy.

We do agree with Judge Waddoups that selectively applying Utah’s “unlawful cohabitation” laws to polygamists is nonsensical. This only highlights the need for specific legislation limited solely to polygamy, which we request that Utah’s state legislature seriously consider.

Where we disagree with Waddoups is in his failure to confront the larger issues. It is simply impossible to reduce polygamy to just what goes on in the bedroom. [(page 76) …this individual liberty guarantee essentially draws a line around an individual’s home and family and prevents governmental interference with what happens inside, as long as it does not involve injury or coercion or some other form of harm to individuals or society.]

The experiences of the many teens, women, and even men who have left a broad range of polygamous groups and relationships are too easily written off by pro polygamy advocates as simply “not typical,” or worse, as the lies of “ex members with a grudge.” However, It is not so easy to ignore the studies mentioned in this press release, and the many others not listed here.

 Is polygamy “just like gay rights?” Is polygamy ”harmless?” Sound Choice Coalition thinks not—and neither do expert researchers.

Marion Munn / Kristyn Decker & Sound Choices Coalition

Former Polygamist (Kristyn Decker) Critical of Plural Marriages 







Stop the Decriminalization of Polygamy – Press Release

Stop the Decriminalization of Polygamy 


Contact: Kristyn Decker

Sound Choices Coalition

(801) 635-7556


“Patriarchal polygamy violates human rights by placing woman in religious bondage,” says Kristyn Decker, founder of the Sound Choices Coalition, which is a partnership of organizations and individuals uniting in an effort to end human rights violation due to polygamy, and other forms of patriarchal abuse.

As a former plural wife, Kristyn Decker states, “When you are brought up in fundamentalism you are blinded from truth and reality.”

Sound Choices Coalition is urging the State of Utah not to decriminalize polygamy in response to the lawsuit by the Kody Brown family.

The Brown family is clearly atypical of the overwhelming majority of polygamous families who do not receive a pay-check from a television network. Kody Brown and the women he lives with have tried to gain public support in their effort to decriminalize polygamy while separating themselves from polygamist leaders, such as Warren Jeffs.

In 2011, the polygamy issue went to the Canadian Supreme Court where many hoped to have the laws against polygamy overturned. After more than a year of extensive research the Canadian Supreme Court decided that polygamy should remain ILLEGAL. Chief Justice Bauman’s decision stated that “the harms associated with the practice are endemic; they are inherent,” and that there is “no such thing as so-called ‘good polygamy’.” (SUPREME COURT OF BRITISH COLUMBIA Reference re: Section 293 of the Criminal Code of Canada, 2011 BCSC 1588, [1045, 1343]).

We hope Utah considers Canada’s recent polygamy research accumulated from Utah, from all over the world, and all previous cases involving polygamy.

If Utah decriminalizes polygamy then polygamous families throughout the country will find sanctuary here. Sound Choices Coalition hopes Utah will make a sound choice to protect women and children from the abuses within patriarch polygamy; such as unequal distribution of power within marriage, being forced to live polygamy under religious duress, arranged marriages, child-brides, young boys and men being forced out of families.

“No one wants to break up happy families or throw good fathers in prison,” says Christine Marie Katas, founder of  Katas, who wrote the symbolic petition, said, “But there has to be a better, more creative legal solution because the evidence clearly shows that significantly more harm comes to polygamous women and children than monogamous women and children.”

These harms include higher rates of domestic violence and abuse, including sexual abuse, higher rates of marital dissatisfaction, higher rates anxiety and depression, higher rates of psychiatric hospitalization, higher levels of somatization, phobia and other psychological problems. Polygamous women have more children, are more likely to die in childbirth and live shorter lives than their monogamous counterparts. Children in polygamous families face higher infant mortality, and physical and mental disabilities from incestuous marriages. Many children suffer more emotional, behavioral and physical problems, have lower educational achievement, and are at a higher risk of psychological and physical abuse than children in monogamous families.

“If this much damage is evident in a culture where there is little to no enforcement of the laws,” asks Christine Marie, “how will these women and children be any better off by removing the laws altogether?”

The members of the Sound Choices Coalition are asking the public to take a stand against the legalization of the subjugation of women in polygamy by signing the petition here:

Sound Choices Coalition will meet in front of the Federal Courthouse at 3:00 on Thursday, January 17th at 350 S. Main St. Salt Lake City, Utah.

Please unite with us against patriarchal abuses.

*Remember – patriarchal polygamy is not a matter of consenting adults.

Click here to learn why.

Stand Against Legalizing the Subjugation of Women Through Polygamy



On January 17, 2013, a federal judge in the state of Utah will hear motions on whether to dismiss or proceed with a lawsuit filed by Kody Brown and family, stars of the TLC show “Sister Wives,” challenging the constitutionality of Utah’s law banning polygamy.

The polygamous family has sued Utah and Utah County, the county they fled from, hoping to persuade the federal judge to pave the way for the decriminalization a way of life for tens of thousands of self-described Mormon fundamentalists, most of whom live in Utah.


The polygamous lifestyle presented by TLC’s “Sister Wives” TV show is entertainment, if not propaganda, and it does not reflect the reality of thousands of residents of residents of Utah and beyond who have suffered agonizing abuses, monumental losses, and even a violation of human rights due to the lack of enforcement of the state’s mandatory prohibition on polygamy.

After reviewing the world’s most comprehensive judicial treatment of the legal status of polygamy, Canadian Chief Justice Bauman declared in December 2011, that a prohibition on polygamy was strongly justified because it is “inevitably associated with serious harms” and “inherently harmful,” particularly to women and children, even in the absence of fraud, violence or abuse.

The Canadian Court ruling is here:

The United Nations Human Rights Committee has repeatedly taken a strong stance against polygamy, not just because of the “serious emotional and financial consequences” for a plural wife and her dependents, but also because it “contravenes a woman’s right to equality with men.”


In fact, in February 2012, the United Nations Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW) even instructed Kenya to abolish polygamy within 2 years.

“Shape up. That’s the simple message, on the way we treat women, from the United Nations Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women…

Polygamy is a deeply ingrained cultural practice. However, the committee wants Kenya to ‘bring all marriage laws under the prohibition of polygamy’.”


Kenya is a Third World Country!

What about Utah?

In May 2012, Utah politicians chose to ignore the extensive research and conclusions of the Canada court, disregard the admonition of the United Nations, go against the trend for nations around the globe to outlaw polygamy, and forget that United Nations considers polygamy a form of discrimination against women. Instead, the Utah County Attorney (where the Brown’s resided), under the direction of the Utah Attorney General, publicly embraced the felony of polygamy as defined in Utah legal code when they announced the effective decriminalization of polygamy as a matter of policy.

Utah Legal Code Section 76-7-101(1) declaring polygamy a felony is here:

The Utah County Attorney’s new policy which overrides Utah law is here:

The exacting wording of the Utah County policy is:

“As Utah County Attorney, I have now adopted a formal office policy not to prosecute the practice of bigamy unless the bigamy occurs in conjunction with another crime…”

The policy, as officially adopted by the Utah County Attorney’s Office, states:

Prosecution of Bigamy Crimes:

“The Utah County Attorney’s Office will prosecute the crime of bigamy under the Section 76-7-101 (1) in two circumstances:

(1) When a victim is induced to marry through their partner’s fraud, misrepresentations or omissions; or

(2) When a person purports to marry or cohabits with another person in violation of Section 76-7-101 (1) and is also engaged in some type of abuse, violence or fraud…

This policy is intended, under the prosecutorial discretion exercised by this Office, to prevent the future prosecution in Utah County of bigamous marriages entered into for religious reasons.” [Case2:11-cv-00652-CW-BCW Document 47-1 5/31/12 Pg. 3]

By formally adopting a policy of apathy, Utah has not only taken women’s rights backwards, they have also flagrantly violated their own state constitution.

Utah State Constitution, Article 3 Section 1

“The following ordinance shall be irrevocable without the consent of the United States and the people of this State:

[Religious toleration — Polygamy forbidden.]

First: — Perfect toleration of religious sentiment is guaranteed. No inhabitant of this State shall ever be molested in person or property on account of his or her mode of religious worship; but polygamous or plural marriages are forever prohibited.”


The Utah Constitution which mandated the criminalization of polygamy, forever, as a condition of statehood, declared the ordinance prohibiting polygamy to be “irrevocable without the consent of the United States and the people of this State.”

When the Utah Attorney General and the Utah County Attorney announced the effective decriminalization of the felony of polygamy as a matter of policy, these politicians overstepped the constitutional requirement to receive the consent of the people of the state of Utah and the consent of the United States. No such consent was achieved, and those who sign this petition provide further evidence of that.

By disregarding the laws in the state constitution, the State of Utah has not only failed in its duty to protect its citizens, but has created an environment where the discrimination and victimization of women is rampant; human rights violations have skyrocketed to epidemic proportions; and predators are not only free to reign, but are protected from prosecution. This is unacceptable in the modern world.

To override the State Constitution and adopt a public policy to allow polygamy without the consent of the people of Utah and the United States, is a reckless violation of fiduciary duty as an elected official that is certain to result in more damage, suffering and financial losses of thousands of victims of polygamy.


We understand that the Utah County Attorney’s office has now provided a powerful response to the Brown’s lawsuit, and by so doing, has taken a stand against the legalization of polygamy. We applaud this and support this, but we also urge further action steps.

We, the citizens of Utah, the citizens of the United States, and the citizens of humanity, have signed this petition to show that we do not consent to the decriminalization of polygamy in Utah, and we beg, urge, and demand for the office of the Utah Attorney General and the Utah County to Attorney::

1. To immediately remedy its failure to abide by the Utah State Constitution and stop allowing the felony of polygamy to run rampant.

2. To stop misleading the public and misuing the power of its office by claiming it has “prosecutorial discretion” to announce a generalized refusal to enforce a legitimate law, when in fact “prosecutorial discretion” is designed to allow prosecutors to weigh the merits and make decisions regarding specific cases.

3. To immediately and officially reverse the “official” policy on the decriminalization of polygamy.

Voices for Dignity

Sound Choices Coalition

Gov. Gary Herbert, UT
John Swallow, Utah Attorney General
Stand Against Legalizing the Subjugation of Women Through Polygamy